Jesus’ Family

Mark 3: 31-35
Heb 10: 1-10 / Psa 40

‘Who are My mother and My brothers?’. . . whoever does the will of God, he is My brother and sister and mother.’
(Mark 3:33,35)

If we want to be Christ’s brother,
What do our words and acts reveal?
Do we show love for one another,
As He has taught us to be God’s will?

Then Jesus’ mother and brothers arrived. Standing outside, they sent someone in to call him. A crowd was sitting around him, and they told him, “Your mother and brothers are outside looking for you.” “Who are my mother and my brothers?” he asked. Then he looked at those seated in a circle around him and said, “Here are my mother and my brothers! Whoever does God’s will is my brother and sister and mother.” (Mark 3: 31-35)


Our Lord was not ignoring His own mother and relatives when they came to see him, but only took this opportunity to convey an important lesson about the kingdom of God. On this occasion He was not taking His relatives for granted, but was simply emphasizing a higher, more lasting spiritual kinship, which is the family of God. And His message then as it is now is: we can only enter into this relationship if we do the will of the Father.

We have learned a valuable truth about the fellowship of believers who belong to a much larger family here on earth (apart from our own natural family), which is more representative of the Father’s divine family in heaven. This spiritual family may be called a renewal community, a charismatic prayer group, or a brotherhood of Christians who are bound together by the Gospel values of Jesus Christ.

I recall the first time we joined our spiritual family, known as the Brotherhood of Christian Businessmen and Professionals. At first it felt strange being addressed as “brother” or “sister” by people whom we had just met. But later, it felt great feeling a sense of belonging, becoming members of a larger family that we had chosen to join. We discovered the essence of God’s family in the fellowship of those who bared not only their souls to one another, but were open to one another generously in Christ. In many instances we witnessed this in our brotherhood — in the financial assistance to a brother or his wife who was hospitalized; in the generous “abuloy” to a brother whose poor uncle suddenly died from a stroke; in the prayer petitions through text messages from members in need of divine intervention, and many other acts of charity. Jesus said, “This is My commandment, that you love one another.” (Jn. 15:17) Doing God’s will simply means loving one another.

In this larger family we came to realize that we all need a support group, without which most of us would be no match against the forces of evil. No soul can stand alone. How fortunate are all those who are now in one of God’s spiritual families: as we draw closer to our brothers and sisters in community, we draw nearer to Christ.

Father, You have blessed us with both our natural and spiritual families. Help us to love them constantly in good times and in bad, as it is Your will for us to follow the example of our Lord Jesus Christ in all our relationships. Amen.

4 Responses to “Jesus’ Family”

  1. melvin C. Naquila  on February 6th, 2009

    i think this is only a positive comment, i really like your reflection. i do hope you will continue in giving interpretation and religious meaning as with regards to the bible passages. god bless us all. can you also send to me this reflection to my email address? i’m looking forward for your positive response. thank you and god speed

  2. Mike  on August 21st, 2009

    Great Website!
    This and the other pages are very good.
    I agree with most of the interpretations in the reflections. However not all of them.
    I no longer adhere to just the four Canonical Gospells now that I have discovered the Gospell of Thomas and the Nag Hamadi Scriptures. As Christ says in the Gospell of Thomas “That which has been hidden will be revealed” and indeed the Gospell of Thomas and the other scriptures in the Nag Hamaddi Codexes have been hidden for nearly 1700 years and hidden by the Catholic Church itself! As Christ says the Church Leaders are like the Pharasis and have hidden the keys and do not let others enter, nor do they enter!
    Further, Gays should not be rejected as the Churches reject them.
    All are invited to the wedding feast!

  3. Levi P. Diaz  on September 14th, 2009

    May I nnow if the Lore Jesus Christ has a family name.

    Thank you so much.

  4. Levi P. Diaz  on September 14th, 2009

    May I nnow if the Lord Jesus Christ has a family name.

    Thank you so much.